This will be one of the first questions you have when you came out of the closet. So here are some of the best lesbian dating tips to use.
Live your life – It is beyond exciting to feel over the moon about another woman but take care of yourself and don’t get lost.
It was really hard to come out of the closet and be gay in this hetero world. It’s not that hard to find a sweet and special first date for you.
All the given points will help you conquer your awesome first date experience.
no one is single:
You have to be really single-When you are looking for a date make sure that you don’t have feelings for another women. And most important, don’t go and get your heart attached to someone who isn’t sure if she’s done with her last girlfriend, who’s just trying out you to decide if she’s done for sure, or someone who is emotionally incapable to breakup with her current girlfriend.
And You have to be really careful picking the first date because the number of lesbians without any sort of attachment is low, in other words no one is really single in the lesbian scene. There is some undercurrent always going on— friends with benefits, one night stands, exes with physical strings attached. So you have to figure out the girl who is really single.
Take your time. When you come out of the closet, Things may feel new and intimidating at the begining, but it’s easy to rush into anything like dating, sex, or into some kind of commitment. Rushing never helped anyone when it comes to lesbian dating, besides it can make things even more complicate. So take your time to get to know your new self before you go on your first date, so then you can get to know the person you chose to date
Step out of your comfort zone – To meet new people, sometimes you have to try new things and have new experiences.Be ready to go out of your comfort zone. Do something different like going to new parks and clubs rather than going to the same ones.
Someplace special– You wouldn’t want to take her to places where there will be someone you know who can interrupt the magical feeling of your first date. So take her someplace special and private enough so that the two of you can talk and get to know each other.
Lesbian dating can be more complicated when the restaurent bill comes, There shouldn’t be any expectations about who pays. Since you’re both equal partners in the relationship,
A general rule in that situation is Whoever asked for the date should pay for it. However Offering to split it or one of you can pay this time and the other the next time – which is, by the way, a smooth and excellent way to let your date know that you want to see them again.
You also have to look for emotional campatibility and really aim for long term commitment than just a fling which lasts for a day or a month.
It’s so easy to jump into love or sex right away when you are so anxious to feel the chemistry, But it’s always advisable to say that don’t rush into those things before you get to know someone really well because let me assure you, this spotlight is temporary with no exception! The limelight will stay perhaps only till you give in— and change your status from single/virgin to complicated, you’ll attach even more to someone you barely know which can make it harder to separate if you find out later you are not a good match. A little discipline will go a long way.
“You have to learn how to ask women out and You have to learn how to say no.”